[AI] Effectively organizing religious ceremonies and participating in them

George Abraham george at eyeway.org
Mon Apr 30 21:47:28 EDT 2018

Many  years ago I was involved in organizing my brother's wedding. I played
a very key role in the planning. Tasks were handed over to specific
individuals. I remained the central figure but I had a team of people who
delivered on several organizational  aspects. There are somethings one can
do , and there are several things one cannot do  that should not keep us
from participating.

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From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-bounces at accessindia.org.in] On Behalf
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Sent: Monday, April 30, 2018 11:48 PM
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Subject: [AI] Effectively organizing religious ceremonies and participating
in them

Hi everyone,

I hope this message finds you well. I rewas recently involved in my
sibling's wedding which got me thinking about the accessibility of religious
ceremonies and customs for the blind. While I made it clear before the event
that I wanted to fully perform all the rites that were expected of me and
abided by that commitment, I also realized, in a powerful way, how such
events are fundamentally so visually driven and how the lack of sight can be
a key impediment in so many ways.

>From supervising decorations to effectively mingling with guests; from
performing the actions that various pujas encompass to relentlessly clicking
and sharing photos; from ensuring that everyone is eating adequately to
engaging in dance practice and the actual dance; from dealing with loud
music that takes away your hearing ability to doing the running around
that's often required and  convincing yourself that you can contribute
meaningfully despite these limitations. On top of all this, these events are
very anxiety-inducing for all organizers and involve a lot of running
around, so it is unrealistic to expect people to make reasonable
accommodations for you to make some of this accessible. I am not saying that
there aren't workarounds and ways and means in which one can contribute; all
I am saying is that, despite one's best efforts, one is unable to do more
than 30-40% of what sighted people in the same position are able to do.

I am wondering how others feel about this and if this gives rise to a
feeling of inadequacy for a lot of people .


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